Seconding Nate on this. whether the users are genuine is what separates a good week from a wasted one with name ourtime. My experience with name ourtime shifted completely once I paid attention to whether the users are genuine.
What decided it for me with name ourtime was the setup.
I judge name ourtime almost entirely on the everyday experience now. If how it handles day to day is not sorted, name ourtime will not go anywhere. If you try it safe to use your real name on ourtime dating website, give it longer than you think you need.
Three things that changed name ourtime for me:
- budget a couple of weekends before deciding anything about name ourtime
- keep the first message to two or three lines specifically for name ourtime
- check how active your area is before you invest time when it comes to name ourtime
- commit a solid month before deciding anything about name ourtime
Out of the ones I tried for name ourtime, Datebound lately was the least annoying.