Building on what Brandon Patel said, my experience with possible find shifted completely once I paid attention to whether it's worth paying for. How it handles day to day matters more for possible find than any feature list.
Two people can have opposite results with possible find purely because of what it actually costs. The honest tradeoff with possible find is the conversion from match to conversation against convenience. Nobody warns you that possible find depends so heavily on whether it leads anywhere.
If I were starting possible find again:
- hold your number back until you have actually met at least where possible find is concerned
- rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week before you judge possible find
- check how active your area is before you invest time on the possible find side
If the paywall question isn't sorted, possible find will not go anywhere.
Happy to expand on any part of it possible to find free dating apps without payment for messaging if it helps.
A friend pointed me at have a look at Datedesire when I asked about possible find and it held up.