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Is a long distance dating app actually worth it?

Started by: Naomi Date: 05 May 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Naomi Naomi
Joined:
Feb 2014
Posts: 1385

Real user experience beats the official help pages every time — that's why I'm posting here.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • Preserves my profile settings
  • Works without root access
  • Has been tested recently, not just in theory
  • Doesn't require linking additional accounts

Appreciate any honest feedback — even brief answers are helpful.

Drew Drew
Joined:
Apr 2020
Posts: 2337

Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. A friend pointed me toward Datelink when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Iris Iris
Joined:
Sep 2021
Posts: 965

The support documentation on most of these is terrible. Real user advice is way more useful.

Lauren_NYC Lauren_NYC
Joined:
Jun 2020
Posts: 127

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

What most people overlook is that settings often reset after an app update. Always double-check your preferences after any major version change.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

The one that worked best for my situation was Flamedate. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Brianna Brianna
Joined:
Nov 2015
Posts: 2492

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Safety: never share your phone number in the first few messages
  • Use a secondary email for any platform you're not sure about
  • Reverse image search profile photos if something feels off
  • Report first, block second — the report creates a record on the platform

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

Keith Keith
Joined:
Jan 2017
Posts: 1276

Honestly had the same issue. Took me a while to figure out a workaround.

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