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How do you report a romance scammer on ourtime dating site for seniors?

Started by: Sharon Date: 11 Feb 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Sharon Sharon
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Oct 2022
Posts: 2692

Long-time reader finally posting. This one's been bugging me: how do you report a romance scammer on ourtime dating site for seniors?

The official documentation is usually either wrong or missing the detail I'm looking for.

What I'm looking for:

  • Doesn't require reinstalling
  • Works on both Android and iOS
  • Doesn't affect existing matches
  • Simple to do without technical knowledge

Happy to give more context if it helps.

Logan Logan
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May 2019
Posts: 2175

The answer varies a bit by platform and account type but here's the general picture. Currently DatingFly is what I'd recommend to someone dealing with this. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Jimmy Jimmy
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Aug 2014
Posts: 1397

I put real time into figuring this out — hopefully it saves you some. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Lance Lance
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Mar 2018
Posts: 11

Location and account age make a bigger difference than people expect.

Keith Keith
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Aug 2018
Posts: 1807

Jumping in because I dealt with this specific question recently. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Chelsea Chelsea
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Jan 2013
Posts: 63

Niche platforms often outperform general ones for specific use cases.

Hailey Hailey
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Oct 2019
Posts: 629

Jumping in because I dealt with this specific question recently. Coffee Meets Bagel is usually more stable but has its own set of quirks. One platform that keeps coming up is luvdate.site — generally has a decent reputation for being upfront about what's free vs paid. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Dustin Dustin
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Nov 2017
Posts: 2123

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Profile photo quality does roughly 70% of the work. Bio, prompts, and activity fill in the rest.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Safety: never share your home address in early conversations
  • First meetings should always be in a public place
  • Tell someone you trust where you're going and with whom
  • Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it usually is

Currently using Datebie as my go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises and the settings do what they say.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Megan_H Megan_H
Joined:
Jan 2016
Posts: 1320

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Profile photo quality does roughly 70% of the work. Bio, prompts, and activity fill in the rest.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • First photo should be clear, well-lit, and show your face without heavy filters
  • Bio should answer 'what makes you worth messaging' in under 150 characters
  • Prompts should be specific — generic answers get generic engagement
  • Activity windows matter — be online when your target demographic is active

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Tasha Tasha
Joined:
Aug 2014
Posts: 2509

The app updates constantly and advice from six months ago barely applies.

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