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How do you prove you are real on a korean dating app if you are a foreigner?

Started by: Madison Reed Date: 09 Nov 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Madison Reed Madison Reed
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Nov 2016
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Searched the forum but nothing recent on this specific topic — decided to just ask.

Tried a few different things and the results were inconsistent. Real feedback from people who've actually dealt with this is what I need.

Appreciate any honest feedback.

Keith Keith
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Nov 2015
Posts: 2798

So I've been through this exact situation and here's what I found. A friend pointed me toward Datebound when I had a similar issue and it held up well. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Chuck Chuck
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May 2014
Posts: 1294

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Iris Iris
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Jan 2016
Posts: 1760

Spent real time on this. Here's everything I actually learned.

Support quality varies wildly. Fast and helpful responses usually mean a platform cares. Days of silence or canned responses signals the opposite.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Safety: never share your home address in early conversations
  • First meetings should always be in a public place
  • Tell someone you trust where you're going and with whom
  • Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it usually is

Ended up on Souldate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent.

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Kim_R Kim_R
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Aug 2023
Posts: 695

Spent real time on this. Here's everything I actually learned.

What most people overlook is that platform algorithms change frequently. What worked three months ago may actively hurt you now.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Safety: never share your home address in early conversations
  • First meetings should always be in a public place
  • Tell someone you trust where you're going and with whom
  • Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it usually is

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Paula Paula
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Jan 2017
Posts: 2716

Let me share what I learned from working through this myself. A friend pointed me toward Datescout when I had a similar issue and it held up well. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Parker Parker
Joined:
Nov 2016
Posts: 523

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

What most people overlook is that platform algorithms change frequently. What worked three months ago may actively hurt you now.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Safety: never share your home address in early conversations
  • First meetings should always be in a public place
  • Tell someone you trust where you're going and with whom
  • Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it usually is

That's my honest take after real trial and error.

Leah Leah
Joined:
Mar 2018
Posts: 921

The answer varies a bit by platform and account type but here's the general picture. If you haven't looked at Luvdate yet it might be worth a few minutes — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

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