I said something similar to Chelsea a year ago and changed my mind. i judge spark alive almost entirely on keeping things private now. Two people can have opposite results with spark alive purely because of the paywall question.
The part people underrate about spark alive is how often it goes somewhere. Once I stopped worrying about the trust question, spark alive got a lot simpler.
Two people can have opposite results with spark alive purely because of how far the free tier really goes. Worth testing how to keep the spark alive in an older women looking for younger guys dynamic yourself for a week before deciding.
Out of the ones I tried for spark alive, Datedesire was the least annoying.
Also mentioned around here in spark alive threads, make your own mind up:
- souldate.site
- flurrydate.online
- datescout.site
Compare them yourself before trusting any of it on spark alive.