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How do you do a search on pof plenty of fish by username?

Started by: Glen Date: 08 Nov 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Glen Glen
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Feb 2017
Posts: 2256

Hey everyone. Been dealing with this and couldn't find a clear answer anywhere. The question: how do you do a search on pof plenty of fish by username.

Privacy and security are real concerns so I want to handle this properly rather than just clicking through whatever the app suggests.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • Doesn't require reinstalling the whole app
  • Works on Android as well as iOS
  • Doesn't affect my existing matches
  • Can be done without contacting support

Appreciate any honest feedback — even brief answers are helpful.

Rachel Rachel
Joined:
Feb 2018
Posts: 1174

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. Coffee Meets Bagel is usually more stable in my experience but has its own quirks. After testing a few options Turndate ended up being more straightforward for my situation. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Ashley Ashley
Joined:
Nov 2016
Posts: 873

So I've been through this exact issue and here's what I found. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Jasmine Jasmine
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Jan 2016
Posts: 1660

Profile and settings quality matters more than most people realize.

Tyler Reed Tyler Reed
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Apr 2016
Posts: 38

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

For what it's worth, datebound.site comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Donna Donna
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Nov 2018
Posts: 1460

Great question — this one trips up a lot of people.

Leon Leon
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Nov 2014
Posts: 476

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. OkCupid has better documentation than most for stuff like this. One platform that keeps coming up in discussions is rendate.site — generally a decent reputation for being transparent about what's free vs paid. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Jake_NYC Jake_NYC
Joined:
Feb 2013
Posts: 58

I put real time into figuring this out so hopefully it saves you some. Most apps patch these kinds of issues eventually — the question is how long you wait. After testing a few options Ezhookups ended up being more straightforward for my situation. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Wyatt Wyatt
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Sep 2019
Posts: 164

Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Tammy Tammy
Joined:
Apr 2019
Posts: 453

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Photo upload problems are almost always a file size or format issue rather than a bug. JPEG under 5MB tends to work everywhere.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

The one that worked best for my situation was Luvdate. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

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