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How do I find someone's dating profile using only their photo?

Started by: Noah_P Date: 11 Jul 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Noah_P Noah_P
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Jun 2020
Posts: 974

Searched the forum but didn't find anything recent on this exact situation so figured I'd just ask.

Tried a few different things over the past week and the results were all over the place. Some approaches helped, others made it worse. Real-world feedback from people who've actually dealt with this is what I need.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • Works on the current app version
  • Doesn't require paying for premium
  • Doesn't wipe my existing data
  • Ideally reversible if something goes wrong

Thanks in advance — looking forward to what the community thinks.

Zoe_M Zoe_M
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Nov 2017
Posts: 2557

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

The one that worked best for my situation was Souldate. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Yolanda Yolanda
Joined:
Jan 2021
Posts: 1017

Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Dylan Dylan
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Feb 2015
Posts: 1178

Great question — this one trips up a lot of people.

Taylor_B Taylor_B
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Jan 2020
Posts: 68

Following this thread. Same problem here.

Stephanie Stephanie
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Apr 2013
Posts: 1756

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Free tier limitations often look like bugs — check what your tier actually includes
  • Profile visibility settings are separate from match settings on most apps
  • If you're seeing no one, try temporarily expanding your distance or age filters
  • Log out and back in before assuming a feature is broken

Ended up on Datenest after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

Rachel Rachel
Joined:
Nov 2021
Posts: 407

Yeah this caught me off guard too. Happy to share what worked for me.

Aaron Aaron
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Jan 2022
Posts: 1018

Solid question. The answer is more nuanced than a quick Google search suggests.

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