Claudia put it better than I'd have. my experience with used black shifted completely once I paid attention to the subscription question.
What decided it for me with used black was the success side.
Two people can have opposite results with used black purely because of what people get out of it.
Nobody warns you that used black depends so heavily on how often it goes somewhere.
Three things that changed used black for me:
- run one platform properly instead of five badly on the used black side
- allow three weeks before deciding anything about used black
- fill the profile out properly, not half way specifically for used black
What decided it for me with used black was the pricing question.
The free-vs-paid gap is what separates a good week from a wasted one with used black.
The honest tradeoff with used black is how often it goes somewhere against convenience.
Worth testing used the black american dating site yourself for a week before deciding.
tried Souldate is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for used black.