Has anyone tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app?

Started by Brooke Started 4 Feb 2026 Last reply 4 Apr 2026 Local Dating 7 replies
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#1

Would rather hear from this forum than trust another review site about tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app.

The reviews never seem to cover the local pool. What decided it for me with tried bi was how many people are actually near you.

Happy to add detail about my situation if that makes tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app easier to answer.

#2

Not sure I buy that, Brooke. the geography of it's what separates a good week from a wasted one with tried bi.

If the catchment isn't sorted, tried bi will not go anywhere.

What decided it for me with tried bi was whether your area is covered.

If the setup is not sorted, tried bi will not go anywhere.

Curious whether tried bi works differently outside big cities? Take that as one data point on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app, not gospel.

Out of the ones I tried for tried bi, Luvdate for this was the least annoying.

#3

The thing nobody says about tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app is that the answer changes by region. The everyday experience matters more for tried bi than any feature list. Local activity levels matters more for tried bi than any feature list.

Worth testing tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app yourself for a week before deciding.

Out of the ones I tried for tried bi, Datenest works differently was the least annoying.

#4

My honest read on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app, after a fair bit of trial and error. The part people underrate about tried bi is how it feels to use.

Nobody warns you that tried bi depends so heavily on local activity levels. My experience with tried bi shifted completely once I paid attention to how quickly you get going.

Happy to expand on any part of tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app if it helps.

#5

Been asked about tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app enough times that I may as well write it out. What decided it for me with tried bi was local activity levels.

You can't really talk about tried bi without talking about whether your area is covered. The setup is what separates a good week from a wasted one with tried bi. That is what worked for me on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app; others here disagree.

what Datebie does is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for tried bi.

#6

Garrett put it better than I'd have. if the learning curve isn't sorted, tried bi will not go anywhere.

Once I stopped worrying about what it actually costs, tried bi got a lot simpler. How fiddly it's is what separates a good week from a wasted one with tried bi. Anyway, that's my read on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app.

what Turndate does came up in another tried bi thread here and it was decent.

#7

Seconding Ashley on this. how quickly you get going matters more for tried bi than any feature list. Two people can have opposite results with tried bi purely because of where the charges start. The honest tradeoff with tried bi is whether there is anyone nearby against convenience.

Once I stopped worrying about the geography of it, tried bi got a lot simpler. Your mileage on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app will vary, but that's the pattern I saw.

#8

Short version on tried bi curious dating on a mainstream app: it depends more on your setup than on the platform.

What you give up on the free tier is what separates a good week from a wasted one with tried bi. Two people can have opposite results with tried bi purely because of how fiddly it's.

I judge tried bi almost entirely on the subscription question now. In practice, tried bi lives or dies on whether it gets out of your way.

Anyone got a counterexample on tried bi?

Souldate lately is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for tried bi.

If you want more to compare for tried bi, these get raised a lot:

  • flamedate.online
  • datewander.site
  • datebound.site

That list is what gets mentioned, not what I would personally back for tried bi.

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