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The paywall question is what separates a good week from a wasted one with here found.
What decided it for me with here found was how it handles day to day. Take that as one data point on here found a long-term partner on freedatingsite, not gospel.
The rules I settled on for here found:
- budget three weeks before deciding anything about here found
- leave two weeks before deciding anything about here found
- keep the first message to two or three lines if here found is the goal
Adjust as needed — here found is not identical for everyone.