Same as Owen, with one difference. i would put how thin it gets outside cities above almost everything else when it comes to ever bought.
The part people underrate about ever bought is how it handles day to day. My experience with ever bought shifted completely once I paid attention to the catchment.
What decided it for me with ever bought was the interface side. How many people are actually near you matters more for ever bought than any feature list. I would put the local pool above almost everything else when it comes to ever bought.
Worth testing ever bought a membership on adultxxxdate com yourself for a week before deciding.
I compared a few on ever bought and Ezhookups works differently came out ahead for me.