I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.
Age-gap dynamics online require extra clarity upfront. Setting expectations in a bio saves everyone time and avoids misunderstandings down the line.
Things that have actually helped me:
- Check your app version first — many known issues are patched in recent releases
- Clear the app cache before assuming something is broken
- Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
- Log out and back in before escalating to a reinstall
Currently using Datescout as my go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises and the settings do what they say.
Take what's useful — everyone's situation is a bit different.