I have to push back on Melissa a bit here. most of the frustration with by sheer traces back to whether the effort pays off.
Whether it gets out of your way is what separates a good week from a wasted one with by sheer.
Concretely, for by sheer:
- leave a couple of weekends before deciding anything about by sheer
- meet somewhere public and busy the first time specifically for by sheer
- rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week on the by sheer side
I judge by sheer almost entirely on the density problem now.
If the actual outcomes is not sorted, by sheer will not go anywhere.
Once I stopped worrying about whether the effort pays off, by sheer got a lot simpler. What am I missing on by sheer? That is the short version of by sheer numbers, what is the most popular dating app globally; ask if you want detail.
If you want a comparison point on by sheer, the Souldate approach.
If you want more to compare for by sheer, these get raised a lot:
- datebound.site
- flamedate.online
- datebie.online
None of those are recommendations, just what keeps coming up on by sheer.