Respectfully, Nick_77, that hasn't been my experience at all. the part people underrate about secure dating is how much to share early on. You cannot really talk about secure dating without talking about the subscription question. How careful to be is what separates a good week from a wasted one with secure dating.
Two people can have opposite results with secure dating purely because of how much to share early on. What it actually costs matters more for secure dating than any feature list.
Does secure dating still hold up for you lot?
Your mileage on secure dating sites that use bank-level encryption will vary, but that is the pattern I saw.
I still keep an account on DatingFly recently purely for secure dating.