I said something similar to Dustin a year ago and changed my mind. the part people underrate about older dating is the subscription question.
In practice, older dating lives or dies on the catchment.
If I were starting older dating again:
- commit a solid month before deciding anything about older dating
- rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week on the older dating side
- give it a couple of weekends before deciding anything about older dating
- plan for a couple of weekends before deciding anything about older dating
I would put the setup above almost everything else when it comes to older dating. The part people underrate about older dating is the subscription question. The part people underrate about older dating is how far the free tier really goes.
Most of the frustration with older dating traces back to the learning curve. That is what worked for me on older dating sites free to message other members; others here disagree.
Turndate recently is the one I keep going back to for older dating.