Free platforms can be fine, but you have to manage expectations. If you want fewer bots, tighten your filters and report aggressively—most apps do respond to reports over time.
Apps I see people actually using (depends on location): HER, Grindr, Coffee Meets Bagel, Facebook Dating, OkCupid, Hinge, Bumble.
A few sites people mention a lot (not perfect, but worth comparing):
- datedesire.online — decent for browsing, but still use caution with new accounts.
- flamedate.online — decent for browsing, but still use caution with new accounts.
- datenest.site — decent for browsing, but still use caution with new accounts.