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Are there any active femdom dating sites that aren't scams?

Started by: Sharon Date: 20 Apr 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Sharon Sharon
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Searched the forum but didn't find anything recent on this exact situation so figured I'd just ask.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

Drop your experience below, even a quick tip is useful at this point.

Veronica Veronica
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Sep 2016
Posts: 57

Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. A friend pointed me toward Ezhookups when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Ethan Parker Ethan Parker
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Posts: 1973

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Mike Harlow Mike Harlow
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Posts: 2008

Honestly had the same issue. Took me a while to figure out a workaround.

Matt_R Matt_R
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I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Renee Renee
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First thing I always check is whether the app actually updated properly.

Devon Devon
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I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Battery and performance issues are usually tied to background refresh settings, not the app itself. Worth checking your phone-level permissions first.

For what it's worth, rendate.site comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Pete Pete
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Nov 2014
Posts: 607

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

Customer support varies wildly. Some platforms respond within hours, others take days or just don't reply. That alone tells you a lot about how they operate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Ended up on Rendate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

Tasha Tasha
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Sep 2015
Posts: 1039

So I've been through this exact issue and here's what I found. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Xavier Xavier
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Apr 2017
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Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. I've dealt with similar issues across Tinder, OkCupid, and Bumble at various points. After testing a few options Souldate ended up being more straightforward for my situation. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Nina Nina
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Apr 2013
Posts: 898

Profile and settings quality matters more than most people realize.

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