This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.
Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor on these platforms. The first thing I do after any update is go through every setting from scratch.
For what it's worth, flamedate.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.
Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:
- Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
- Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
- Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
- If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally
That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.