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Are the algorithms different for men and women on the international dating app?

Started by: Alicia Date: 27 Dec 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Alicia Alicia
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Aug 2023
Posts: 1384

Long-time reader finally posting. This one's been bugging me: are the algorithms different for men and women on the international dating app?

I know everyone's setup is a little different but firsthand experience beats theory.

What I'm looking for:

  • Works without rooting the device
  • Works on mobile and tablet
  • Doesn't expose additional personal data

Thanks in advance — looking forward to what people share.

Gloria Gloria
Joined:
Nov 2017
Posts: 434

Profile and settings quality matters way more than most people think.

Tyler Reed Tyler Reed
Joined:
Aug 2017
Posts: 379

This is more layered than it looks. Here's my honest breakdown. OkCupid has better documentation for most of this than the others. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Dustin Dustin
Joined:
May 2017
Posts: 830

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Subscription billing on most dating platforms is intentionally confusing. Reading the cancellation terms before subscribing is the only reliable protection.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Check your app version first — many known issues are patched in recent releases
  • Clear the app cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Log out and back in before escalating to a reinstall

Currently using Flurrydate as my go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises and the settings do what they say.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Alyssa Alyssa
Joined:
Oct 2020
Posts: 1070

First thing I always check is whether the app is actually current.

Marcus Marcus
Joined:
Mar 2013
Posts: 515

Great question — this one comes up constantly.

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