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Are foreign dating sites free of charge or do they all require tokens?

Started by: Bryce Date: 22 Sep 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Bryce Bryce
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Sep 2022
Posts: 402

Long-time reader here, first time posting on this specific topic: are foreign dating sites free of charge or do they all require tokens?

Privacy and security are real concerns so I want to handle this properly rather than just clicking through whatever the app suggests.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • Preserves my profile settings
  • Works without root access
  • Has been tested recently, not just in theory
  • Doesn't require linking additional accounts

Happy to give more context if it helps narrow things down.

Heather Heather
Joined:
Apr 2017
Posts: 2013

Yeah this caught me off guard too. Happy to share what worked for me.

Matt_R Matt_R
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Nov 2014
Posts: 22

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

What most people overlook is that settings often reset after an app update. Always double-check your preferences after any major version change.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Denise Denise
Joined:
Jun 2019
Posts: 753

The landscape changes so fast. Advice from six months ago sometimes doesn't apply.

Leah Leah
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Jun 2023
Posts: 1314

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

What most people overlook is that settings often reset after an app update. Always double-check your preferences after any major version change.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Marcus_J Marcus_J
Joined:
Apr 2018
Posts: 2340

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

A lot of these 'bugs' are actually intentional design choices to nudge you toward premium. Knowing that changes how you troubleshoot.

For what it's worth, datelink.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

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