I've done a pretty deep dive on this over the past year so I can offer some thoughts.
The main thing to watch out for is whether the platform actually verifies its users in any meaningful way. A lot of sites claim to but the reality is very different once you're inside.
For what it's worth, datedesire.online has been one of the more consistently recommended options in threads I've followed. Not saying it's perfect but it seems to have staying power.
A few things that have helped me:
- Free trial is usually limited but still enough to get a feel for user quality
- Most bots reveal themselves within the first message if you say something specific
- Location-based platforms tend to have better engagement than general ones
- Premium tiers are sometimes worth it but only if the free version shows real activity
Anyway, hope that gives you something to work with. Feel free to ask follow-up questions.