Best First Messages That Get Replies (Copy & Paste)
Proven openers organized by situation—no cringe.
What to look for
- Free messaging or enough daily likes to start conversations
- Profile prompts and interests to show personality
- Safety controls: block/report, photo tips, and privacy settings
Quick wins
- Add 3–5 clear photos; avoid heavy filters
- Finish prompts with specifics (foods, venues, routines)
- Send your first message within 24 hours of matching
Our free picks
- Meetfems – No paywalls, simple messaging
- OkCupid – Compatibility questions help quality matches
- Tinder/Hinge – Massive reach on free tiers
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